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Self Care CornerHappy Thanksgiving
i We all have beliefs that lead to thoughts we realize we are thinking. They form the foundation for our emotions, for how we live our lives. But what words are we unconsciously repeating to ourselves every day? These elusive, inner utterances also instruct...
It’s the Little Pings in Life
Since the world doesn’t seem to be getting any less distracting, it’s up to us to take charge of what we take in. That often means turning things off, even if that's not popular. We may tell ourselves that pings, dings, vibrations, and lights aren’t affecting our...
Remembering it all
As we reflect on this year, it's important to be aware of the tendency to recall only what is riveting. We've been led to believe that simple, delightful pleasures are not as important; If an encounter isn't dramatic, widespread, or painful, it isn't worthy of our...
Routines Change Everything
Routines are great things. Unless they're actually habits. If you're using your mind and body to act, learn, or change something, this is a routine. A habit is different. Habits we do without realizing. Our bodies automatically move with little or no conscious thought...
Oceans of Quiet
Below the surface of rough seas, there is a calmness that is often hard to fathom from above. Yet, there it rests, like an old friend. Supportive and kind, it patiently waits for us to consider paying it a visit. In unsettling times, maintaining composure is crucial....
Outside the Window
When I was in grade school, it was embarrassing to be scolded by a teacher for looking out the window. I know we were supposed to be paying attention to her, but I also remember how difficult that sometimes was - especially when springtime came, and it seemed...
What Never Dies
I’ve lately been recognizing the real value of spending time with my mom (94). It’s not to create new memories, or to help with things that she can no longer do for herself. It’s not to reminisce or even to ensure she is getting the kind of care she deserves. At this...
Tidings of Great Joy
What brings you joy? Most of us can come up with several things: spending time with a loved one, watching a beautiful sunrise, gazing at a newborn baby, walking along a quiet beach, or nuzzling a favorite pet. We welcome these opportunities. They seem to fill us up,...
A Healing Bond
My 93-yr-old mother, Margaret, lives one door down from her younger sister in the personal care section of a nursing unit in PA. They are inseparable - eating meals together, attending mass, participating in activities. My aunt, who is approaching 90, was never...
Teaching Kids to Not Be Bothered
There is no more important a task than helping our kids cope in a world that can sometimes be unkind. But first, we have to learn how to do it ourselves. It's difficult to let go of what someone says or does. We can start by realizing that to be bothered or unbothered...